What is Couples Counseling?
Couples counseling can improve communication, strengthen connections, and improve conflict resolution skills. The focus can be on any stage of a relationship from improving a current relationship to saving it from divorce.
The five signs of a fractured relationship
- Disagreements: Frequent and intense disputes that have been left unresolved
- Criticism: Partners use words such as âalwaysâ and âneverâ leading to an erosion of a personâs self confidence
- Contempt: Attacks on oneâs character where the recipient feels worthless and despised
- Defensiveness: Even the smallest disagreement becomes an eruption of blame without admission of fault, reluctance to understand the other personâs perspective and the lack of an apology
- Stonewalling: Partner(s) withdraw, avoid or stop responding to their partners needs
This is usually short-term counseling aimed at eliminating unhealthy, conflict-ridden patterns and dissatisfaction. Some research shows couples are 5 years late in doing couples counseling due to avoidance, cost or one person refusing to engage in counseling.
How much is your relationship worth? Wouldnât a divorce be much more costly?